Day 7 - Almost a full week has passed since I arrived and I'm feeling more comfortable. Heather arrived on Saturday night and it was soooo nice to see her again after 2 years! Heather and I met in Korea, but she left after the first year. We kept in touch and when she ended up in Kuwait, that's when we first started chatting about me joining her at AAG. It's so nice to have a familiar face and someone who is grounded here - someone who knows the ropes and can show me how to climb and help pick me up when I fall.:)
I have a new cell phone, but have still yet to get a line for it. You're supposed to have your residence card in order to get a line, but Heather will get mine in her name. That's what someone did for her and her cell is still in someone elses name. I can just top it up and pay as I go.
I find myself comparing Kuwait to Korea a lot. Many things seem the same. Deadlines and timelines are only a suggestion here and they even have a word for it - Insha-allah. This means "god willing" So the Kuwaiti's and people who live in Kuwait will say insha-allah about things that they HOPE will get done. Very similar to the Korean way of using "maybe"
For example:
Schedules:
Kuwait : "The schedules will be ready by Wednesday - insha-allah"
Korea: "Maybe the schedules will be ready by Wednesday"
That being said, Kuwait does seem to be more on the ball as far as paperwork for work permits, civil id, residence cards etc. At least our school has been. All our paperwork, fingerprinting, and blood/medical tests are done. They were really on the ball with getting that done and walking us through it. All thanks to a woman named Dorie (an american who, despite living here for 17 years and being married to a Kuwaiti, remembers what it's like to be here for the first time) and our mandoub Hassan (mandoub is a person who takes care of paperwork for a business/school)
Since Kuwait is a muslim country many people are covered in the traditional clothing. For men this means a white
dishdasha and white or checked
gutra. The dishdasha is a long white robe and the gutra is the head cloth. To keep the gutra from slipping off the men will wear a close fitting cap underneath and a black cord over top.
It's still surprising to me to see men walking around in this.
The women will wear western clothing, but some of them will cover it up with a long black cloak like dress called an
abaya and some even will wear the traditional face covering the
burqa. Usually when the women wear the burqa, you can still see their eyes. The interesting part to this is that the whole idea is to hide yourself from other men, but they usually have their eye makeup done to the 9's. Really dark and exotic looking, which I think kind of defeats the purpose of covering up the rest of the body if you've got some "come ___ me" makeup going on. :)
In my time here I have only seen ONE woman with the head to toe covering where you can't even see her eyes.
There are many people who DON'T wear the traditional clothing, but that's most likely because they are not kuwaiti. It's amazing how many different nationalities are represented here. Many Kuwaiti's have maids and nannies and they employ people from the Phillipines, India, Sri Lanka, Indonesia etc.
"The foreign population of Kuwait mainly consists of Egyptians followed by Indian, Bangladeshi, Pakistani, Filipino and Sri Lankan residents. Other foreigners consist of European, North American and Northeast Asian communities"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Kuwait Only about 1million of the 3.5 million people who live in Kuwait are actually Kuwaiti
Men here will stare at you and harrass you if you are a woman. They won't touch you but they will constantly try to "friend you". One story told to us had a man saying "I want friend you" HAHAHAHAHA!!...I'm sure he meant to say "I want to be your friend" (all the while wanting more than friendship) but it still sounded funny. I was concerned at first because in Korea I didn't have to deal with that kind of thing, but here, if you even lock eyes with a man in public - he could bug you for your phone number and ask you to be his "friend". Even while driving on the Gulf Road, they are maniacs and will try to catch your attention in a car and make kissing faces. It's NUTS!. That being said, I don't feel unsafe here. I'll obviously be careful, but I asked about being harrassed physically and was told that they'll NEVER touch you, just bug you incessantly.
The first day of school is next sunday (Fri/sat is the weekend here) and I'm hoping to have time this week to get my classroom set up and decorated. It's small, but I should only have 15-17 kids in my class.
I'll post more about school later!
Ta!